The whole truth

Women love to analyze relationships; we all have honorary doctorates in psychology. We don't just analyze, however. Women inject new meaning, dissect personalities and motivation, and basically create a totally different view that jives more with what they want than what really is. Why hasn't he called me if we had such a fun and fantastic time on our date? Well, honey, it is time to stop making up stories that make you feel better about rejection and accept that He's Just Not That Into You. Taken from that Sex and the City episode where Miranda finally gets that, "hey, he's just not that into you," the latest hot book by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo (former writers for SATC) tells women exactly what they have been trying to ignore. Ladies, a guy who can't even call you for two minutes out of his 1440 minute day, no matter how great the date was, just isn't interested in you. A man's a man, and he may be attracted to you, may want to bonk you, may consider another date with you, but when he says he's just "too busy" what he means is he's just too busy FOR YOU! Think about it; if Jude Law showed up at your door, would you tell him to come back later; you're too busy right now? Hell no! You'd probably usher him in and handcuff him to your sub-zero refrigerator. So it should be with the guy that you want to date. He should want to call you, want to see you, not say "oh, I have tentative plans Friday night, but we'll see how they pan out and if they don't, then maybe we can go out." That's freaking absurd! And shame on the ladies for wanting that guy (I'm not immune; shame-shame on me too!) who can't call you until an arbitrarily determined number of days have passed. Move on and find someone who is into you instead of wasting your time on someone you have to convince that you're amazing.